( 3 things you must never allow to be found in your life)
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>If you have really desired to enjoy success, peace and marriage prosperity...
These are three things you must not allow to be found in your life, rather strive to conquer them.. Over them and I can assure it has so much benefits. These are
1. HOT TEMPER, (anger)
2. CARELESS SPEECH(saying anything that you wish at any time) AND
3. IMPATIENCE.
A critical study of these three mentioned would see they are interlink. It is obvious that when one is angry it affects ones speech and altitude too. He or she can not be patience to carefully look into actions he or she may wishes to take further. Anger has been the major cause of several problems found in marriage today. Inability of people to over look certain things. Anyone who doesn't think of what he or she says,
where and how to say them would not live without problems daily. Some
people can never keep quite in any situation. Especially some women.. Sorry to narrow this matter to a particular gender.. It's our findings that motivated me to say so.. Majority of the cases we encounter where all as the result of anger, careless statement and impatience to peaceful resolve indifferences. There is no amount of threatening statements that can calm any man down rather it will rise and provoke his minds for trouble. Some women don't know how to talk to their spouse. Naturally men are meant to be authoritives while women are meant to be Influential. When you look at the two.. Influence is more powerful..
Because when you Influence someone, you control him or her like a remote appliance. Unfortunately some women desired authority over their spouse and fiances, and so that where the problems lie. Many women speech can kill a man without them knowing. And those who posses such don't always admit they do, and they got hot tempers that can cause deep pains within an hour that may take 10 years to be healed. A man would prefer to marry a bad cook than a woman who picks offence easily and talk anything she wishes without checking
what she says. You should be calm and avoid running mouth.. It has not helped anyone and would never help you. Stop the mindset that the right one will love you they way you are... And this make some people not to be work on themselves.
Have you asked yourself who is really this right one?
Human being or spirit?
That would tolerate someone with a bad character.. Well it may be
true but the possibility is not confidential. So don't follow it rather change your life style. Work on your "hot temper" nature. You must not say everything you feel like saying.. Remember you are relating those things to someone that reasons like you.. And he or she may not take it they way you see it. If anyone can conquer careless talk, hot temper and impatience.. This life would be a wonderful place to be. Seriously I'm telling you. Am not deceiving you try mould and work on how you talk and react over matters... And, see how your spouse will be treating you. Gentle speakers will not live without honours . But, the careless speakers dwell with problems all day.
No wonder the Bible teaches and says: "Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the world"
The inheritance here is PEACE. They shall possess the peace of this world. In everything they do peace shall follow them.
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